Let’s face it, if there are several areas that we need to
work on, transforming ourselves physically or mentally can be a truly
formidable task. New Year’s resolutions are often abandoned. Perhaps the going got rough or there wasn’t a
proper plan to execute. Some of you have
perhaps even decided to never make another resolution.
This year, rather than focusing on going to the gym every
day, or never eating another dessert, or selecting an all-or-nothing resolution,
I am making January a time to focus on the little habits that create health in
my life. If I am having issues with my
food choices, I will track my food and drink intake in a journal for a few days
and spend additional time in menu planning.
If my exercise isn’t where it needs to be, I will focus making both
cardio and strength a priority in my week.
If my stress is getting out of control, I may need to set aside some
extra time for prayer and get in a great cardio kickboxing workout (punching
things always helps me relax!).
Growing up, my mom always said that whenever you feel stuck
(during your day, in your life, etc.) – just do the next thing you know to do. My
example this week - when the house is a wreck and you are totally overwhelmed—pick
one room or task to start. The house
doesn’t have to be perfect right away, but we do need to keep moving and not
give up on it. If your goal for 2014
seems formidable, take it apart in pieces like you might clean your house. Then pick the next thing.
If your goal is to lose 75 pounds in 2014, you will need
help. That is a huge and awesome
undertaking. Prepare yourself for
success. Set up a support system—maybe a
nutritionist and a personal trainer—and definitely as much family or friend
support as you can muster up! Start tracking your food and exercise. Perhaps you might utilize Sparkpeople or other
fitness and health apps on your phone or tablet. A big goal takes a lot of work, and you can
expect plateaus and setbacks. Not
everything will work out as you desire.
BUT, when you get stuck –just do the next
thing you know to do.
If your goal is to
change your eating habits, don’t expect to start wanting snap peas and green
smoothies instead of potato chips and ice cream right away. You might do well with slowly introducing
fresher and non-processed foods into your diet, or you may need to go cold
turkey on all your food vises. I do not
do well with having junk food or sweets in the house, so sometimes I just tell
my husband that if he wants something he has to buy it and not tell me about
it! Doing the next thing might be trading white rice for brown, or white bread
for whole wheat, making fruit and yogurt smoothies for a healthy dessert, or
making sure your lunch has a serving or two of vegetables.
Whether your goals for 2014 are big or small, we all have
times we get stuck. When we are at that impasse,
stop and think. Forget the big picture for a moment and just focus on the next thing –that next step, that next decision
– and make it a good one.